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Been a few weeks. This is where Im at. The details about the A have changed sinse they were revealed to me and the contact was much worse then I thought and W honesty has always been bad as the original story I got was something W and OM made up? When W and I discuss an argument ensues. We are at the point now where I just keep all the questions and pain to myself because I see that it is damaging to our recovery. I am told that NC has been established and I have no recourse but to believe W. The phone records prove somewhat, but I realize there are other methods to communicate, like email.
Anyway our counciler also thinks it is time to move on, but what do I do with all this pain? And should I just drop all the questions about the affair?
D-Day Sept 4th 2006 (Labor Day Holiday)
No Holiday for me...
Numerous D-Day's
BS - 50
FWS - 47
Three Children DD(26) DD(24) DS(21)
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Well not much info here and it's totally your call as a BS but less than 2 months after d-day doesn't seem lik egiving up time to me. My 2c.
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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and she's quite probably in withdrawal. She will need at some stage to commit to PORH and being checked on....
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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