looks like she wants to go. Sad.
keep good records, document every thing. get all the poop that is available. instead of her & him raising YOUR children YOU can & do it correctly!
thats just me.

I noticed the ages of your youngest child. Are you sure that your WW is not suffering from post partum depression?

I look back and I now know that mine was and was particularly vulnerable at the time she got involved in her A. She had also started back to work full time for the first time in three years. She began her A when our son was 7-8 months old.

hopeandpray, you have a good point. I would never had thought of something like that. I think I will ask her. She has also started working full time....

I asked her if we could visit tonight because we were both off work at 7, and she said she wanted to have mommy time with the kids. I feel bad for her doing the single parent thing cuz she takes them to daycare around 8am and gets off work at 11pm. She works a 2pm-11pm shift though. If I am with the kids, they are asleep by the time she gets home.

I will definatley have to look into post-partum depression as for her seeking OM.

Thanks again Hopeandpray.

She's not a nurse or working in the medical field is she?

No, she works at Wal-Mart.

Just to give you guys an update about what has happened since Sunday. I ended up getting in an argument and did some things that got me a PFMA (Partner Family Member Assult) charge. She talked to our pastor, and said largley that she was afraid of me. She has another restraining order, and I dont intend to have anymore contact with her untill we can talk infront of a third party, which would be our pastor. I am sooo close to filing divorce papers because I am sick of being treated like a doormat whenever I am around her. I am at a loss of what to do since she told me that she dosent love me anymore and that her and the OM may date in the future. Also I am finding out that this has been going on for quite some time.....

Any suggestions would be greatfully appriciated. I put myself in this mess, now I just need to figure out how to dig myself out of it.