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Please pray for my wife. She has been involved in a A for nearly 3 mts now and showing no sign of letting up. I ordered the book Surviving an Affair today but I really have a burden for her salvation and heart. I pray a hedge of Thorns around her hourly almost. God has given me a forgiving heart right now and My 7 yr old daughter and myself so want to put our family back together. Please pray for her.
Me-34 (BS)
W-33 (WW)
DD-7
Married 3/28/1992
DDay 8/4/06
Seperated 8/18/06
Plan A Start 1/4/07
**A Warrior does not give up on what he Loves, he finds the Love in what he does.**
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What have you done to end the A and attract your W back into your M?
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(see "MiM's Story" for more details)
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I have tried everything. I am now trying Plan B which is hard considering we have a child. I am stuck in a rutt right now and don't know what else to do. Except PRAY
Me-34 (BS)
W-33 (WW)
DD-7
Married 3/28/1992
DDay 8/4/06
Seperated 8/18/06
Plan A Start 1/4/07
**A Warrior does not give up on what he Loves, he finds the Love in what he does.**
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Have you exposed the A to all those who can help in ending it?
OM's W (if he's married)
Family
Friends
Office (if it's an office A)
Etc...
ManInMotion
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(see "MiM's Story" for more details)
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Yes everyone knows it and they really are not trying to hide it anymore. She left me in August and it has gotten progressivly worse. My daughter will not stay with her because of it.
Me-34 (BS)
W-33 (WW)
DD-7
Married 3/28/1992
DDay 8/4/06
Seperated 8/18/06
Plan A Start 1/4/07
**A Warrior does not give up on what he Loves, he finds the Love in what he does.**
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Contact an attorney to understand your options and legal obligations. In addition, get legal advice concerning various options concerning your daughter. You would want to have too much information than not enough. Hope for the best but prepare for the worse.
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Got bad news a few minutes ago.My WW took my daughter to see OM last night with his daughter(who is my niece). Then went to his dad's house and stayed late last night, drove his vehicle home, then switched cars back today at her shop and let the kids play all day. My life as I know it is ending!
Me-34 (BS)
W-33 (WW)
DD-7
Married 3/28/1992
DDay 8/4/06
Seperated 8/18/06
Plan A Start 1/4/07
**A Warrior does not give up on what he Loves, he finds the Love in what he does.**
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Paron--Get all the info you can. Sounds like your wife is on a fast track out of your marriage. Remember what you are feeling may be based on something that does not exist in this day and time. Being "paroniod" can sometimes be life saving.
johoman
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