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My wife, MF has put a lot of time and effort into our recovery, whereas, I have been stagnate and avoiding. Something happened to my heart on Friday which turned me around, but I am afraid I could be too late.
I love my wife and ask that you pray for me that I can give her what she needs to recover from the pain I have caused, and pray for her that she is willing and able to see my changed heart and sincerity.
Please just pray that I am not too late..
Thank you
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You already are in our hearts and prays!
Don't give up yet,have hope,MF hasn't left you yet has she?
It is a big thing to walk away from 16 yrs.
MyFWH and I faced these same demons many years ago and To give it another try to work it out. Are you telling her what you've been telling us? Just do your best to make her undrstand that you are a changed man. Give her the chance to see how hard you are willing to work on things!!
Have hope, we care about you both!
DD
FWW @ FBW
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Me-34 (BS)
W-33 (WW)
DD-7
Married 3/28/1992
DDay 8/4/06
Seperated 8/18/06
Plan A Start 1/4/07
**A Warrior does not give up on what he Loves, he finds the Love in what he does.**
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Sending up prayers for you, MFsFWH. You, MF & your family. Please give MF time to process all this. She is hurting & the best thing you can do for her right now is pray for her. A W is sanctified by her H & a H is sanctified by his W.
I am so glad that you've had a change of heart. Sometimes God works at the weirdest times in our life. We're feeling one way & then all of a sudden, WHAM, we hear His voice & start to turn. I suspect this is what has happened for you & I say, Great!
A little encouragement -- even if MF doesn't want to continue recovery w/you, please know that you are loved by God & if you rely on HIm, you WILL become that man of integrity that you want to be.
{{{MFsFWH}}}
RBW (me) FWH lostboyz
Married for 16 years
DDay on 10/10/03
Reconciliation on 2/8/04
Son 17, Twin son & daughter 16
4 years of a strong recovery
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