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Things have been going good with my husband-he is very attentive and he told me that he is trying and I can tell he is-although I am still having thoughts of telling the other spouse. My question is has anyone told the other spouse only to find out they didnt care or didnt do anything about the affair? Also I am afraid if I do tell him that she will say that my husband and her are just friends-he says they have not had sex. Someone told me that I could end up looking crazy-if she says they are just friends.
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jrobin,
Delayed exposure to the OP's spouse may look punitive especially in the light of a truly contrite WS. Conversely, delaying exposure gives the OP valuable time to prepare his/her spouse and family and friends to be on the lookout for this crazy broad(YOU}
Divorced:
"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle
You believe easily what you hope for ernestly
Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
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Where are you 2 in recovery and what is the reason for your exposure now?
L.
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