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I have been in Plan B for a little more than two months. I am getting tired of waiting and have decided that I need to move on for myself. I would like to start the divorce process but I am in Plan B. Would it be faster to come out of Plan B to get this done faster? I have mixed feelings about speaking with her at all as I feel like Plan B has definitely prepared me for this but I am a bit scared at the idea. Should I mention through my intermediary that I am planning on going through with a divorce so she knows and can respond?

Any other help would be greatly appreciated, especially anyone who has ever gone through this particular instance.

Many thanks MBers!


BS: 27 WW: 24 Found out PA/EA: 6/15/06 WW moved out 07/07/06
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Be verrrry careful that D is what you want and it is not just a ruse to manipulate your WW. It can backfire on you if it is not your desire. If it fails another Plan B can only be used to get you through the D process


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"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle

You believe easily what you hope for ernestly

Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does

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