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I'm getting ready to have my kids get their picture taken for our Christmas cards.
WH lives in own apt. with OW.
How do I sign the cards? Most of the people that I send cards to, don't know the situation. Ya know you only talk to them once a year via Christmas cards?
If I sign my name and the kid's names, then people will wonder what happened to WH. Yeah I know I shouldn't care what people think, but I do.
The devil in me wants to say... yep it's only the 3 of us now. WH decided to have an A with someone 17 years younger and he's living with her now!
Boy would that make me feel good to do that.
I know revenge doesn't get anyone anywhere, but I'm just so hurt and sick of this whole mess.
I was thinking, maybe just "The Smith Family"? I kind of feel weird even doing that. I know the 3 of us are a family now, but without WH it doesn't seem like we are a family anymore.
Any suggestions?
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I was just thinking about Christmas cards!!
I usually send a picture of the family along with a generic card. Since only DS and I will be in pic, I'll be signing it with our names, but that is my sitch.
As for how to sign your cards, well, you ARE still a family, just minus the WH. Why couldn't you sign it Smith family?
Me-BS-38
Married 1997; son, 8yo
Divorced April 2009
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Very interesting question.....I can think of all kinds of things to write in them......ahhhhh but I digress.
lol
Maybe I'll skip them this year.
Jeff
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cat: I am going to be nasty here. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> But how about if you took a cardboard cut out with you to the photography shop? Maybe tape a picture of WS to it. Take your family picture, then mail those out? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> Otherwise. Just you and the kids. Signed, You and the kids. If people want to ask, answer or refer them to H. WS have to answer for thier actions eventually.
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Lousy,
That is too funny. A real consideration though...
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