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found out that my wife has/ had an online affair, after months of not getting along well i confronted her about it and askend that the time she spends online playing a game (wow)was for fun or escape. for those that know world of warcraft knows how much time these people spend on it. she said escape. after more time see her play at 60+ hours a week on top of working 40+ hours a week, i confronted her, she said she needed to go to newengland to see the leaves change, and think. i told her to leave flight#'s and times and go, but this was making me very upset. she did not go told me she decided to not need to go to decide that we were done. i was floored. she said she wanted a divorce. that was a month ago, we are in counseling seperately and things seem better, a little better, shes been diagnosed as depressed. this weekend i find the online order for the flights and times for her to go to the midwest. this printed up in a file in home office. she did not go but paid for it 1 week ahead of the date, then i belive she did not go due to my insistance for the flight #'s and times. no i have proof that she was going to meet a fellow online player in his hometown, i repeat, she did not go but know she wanted to. and there is ap player on this game roster in the same town and she uses his name for a login refrence to the game. her behavior when confronted about her acting like theres someone else, she denies all and says theres no affair. yadyadaydadayyada. just like the intro said, the a light went off bigtime? in my head. now what do i do. sorry to ramble, pretty [email]f@#$%[/email] in the head right now

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cut and paste this post over onto the Infidelity-Gen'l Questions board. It's much busier over there.

First thoughts.

Read this website.

Call the Harleys if you can afford it.

Go into Plan A.

Find out who OM is and expose him to his spouse if he is married.

Try to calmly get your wife OFF that game and reengaged in life. Try to get her to a doctor for her depression. Perhpas try to remove the computer from the house.

Snoop. Read the spying 101 thread about keyloggers (look in Longhorn's signature line - you can find Longhorns posts in the "for newly betrayed spouses" thread on this very board). Keylog for more evidence of an affair than just the plane ticket. You are entitled to the truth about your life. Just maybe the guys already visited your hometown.

Act, Don't React. Think this out and come up with a plan over on GQII.

Welcome to MB...sorry to meet this way.

YOU will make it.

Mr. Wondering


FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered

"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.

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