If you leave this sight because your EX WW is upset with what you are typing.....I will NOT email you!!!! Do NOT let her control you like that! She is TOTALLY having her way with you again and she divorced YOU!!!!

Listen carefully.......YOU HAVE TO BE STRONGER!!!! HAVE SOME NUTTS!!!! Your EX dumped you because you had been too weak in your marriage. Its true nice guys finish last ALOT of times.

This is what my mother told me....."Women like a bad boy that treats them good"

Basically what she is saying, is women want a MAN!!!! A guy that they cant use as a doormat or be a pushover. Women do want to be treated well, but they dont want the nice Mr. Rogers kind of guy.

You were Mr. Rogers, and you still are Papa......your EX WW has you whooped!!!! You do everything at her beconing call.

Like I said, if you let her drive you from this site, Im done with this.......period.

Please stay, tell her to kiss you A$$!!!! Sorry, but that is how I feel. My EX W treated me just like yours is doing to you.......my EX never respected me till my BALLS grew back.

Now that we are divorced, Im remarried and dont take her crap, she feels like she lost a good man. You need to do the same......stop letting her run your life and what you do.

*shakes head in disbelief*


I wouldnt apologize for SH&%! to your EX.

StartinOver,
Good post..........If I had to guess (and I'm not by the way) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> he probably will stay away for a couple of days untill his legal situation cool down.
I know this from experience myself.

Hang in there SO.
Jeff

Thanks for the reply.....I see I got tons of looks (which is what I wanted), but not very many replies.

I just cant stand to see Papaof3 giving in to his EX wife so much. She really hasnt suffered ANY consequences for her actions at all.......at least not yet. Hers will soon come, it always does.

If Papaof3 comes in, which I hope he continues to do, I really want him to stand up to his EX for a change.

At this point, all I see Papaof3 as.......a whippin post.



Sorry if I offended anyone, but I had to vent.

God Bless everyone, (forgive me of my cursing lord) and have a great weekend!!!!!

Oh...Believe me, I can't stand his whole situation.
He's just as mad at himself for this behavior. (from what i've read in past posts)
Hers will soon come, it always does---->I'm echoing you here.
I hope she gets just what she deserves....lol

I really think he will *see the light*....well, someday...<sighs>

His situation is very frustrating, isn't it?


And YOU have a great weekend as well.
Jeff

Okay I MUST respond! I have read P3s thread since he arrived. There isn't a 2x4 that I have not thought of whacking him with.

Hiw XXXXXXXX WW is a controlling ^)(*% Whatever.

THat is not the problem is it. Not really. imvho P3 is his OWN worst enemy. His addiction to his XWW destroys his own persoanl ercovery.

P3 YOU CANNOT MAKE your XWW cahnge. YOU can onl Change YOU. ANd how YOU react. HOw is THIS working for you> NOt too well. And I say that with love yet great exasperation. THis is difficult to watch. NOTHING will change until YOU change HOW you react. Whether it is to ultimately recover a dead M or to recover personally. THIS IS NOT working!

STAND UP for YOURSELF. Doormat reactions are NOT attractive. NEEDINESS is NOT attractive. TO put it bluntly find your BIG BOY Pants. CINCH em tight and fight the BS.

P3 you recognize that this isn't working. So STOP REACTING. STOP the BAD HABIT. LISTEN to the great advice that you have receive. And, more importatnly FOLLOW it. Not give it just lip service. !

SO,

You don't have the full picture. I've e-mailed papa and it isn't as simple as it looks. There's reasons why he's taken the steps he's taken.

You REALLY should e-mail him. He can give you the full scoop.

His ex is ticked at facing the truth on this board. She says her privacy is violated when no one here knows who the he!! she is, what she looks like, her last name or where she lives! Oh, her name is Kristy. That narrows it down. (big eye roll there)

Get over yourself and quit bashing on a good man! You should be ashamed for cheating on a man while he's fighting for our country.

SO and anyone else who cares, shoot him an e-mail. He will happily explain.

I will email him at the latest monday......but, WHATEVER the reason he left is BS. His EX can do two things about him voicing his concerns about his EX on MB.....Jack ISHT!!!

If she has a Myspace account, whatever she says is worth two things JACK ISHT!!!!

I really dont care what excuse this person has, it means two things Jack isht.


Sorry, but I just really dont see any explanation that can prove to me that papa cant talk about his prior marriage.

What can happen.....can she sue him?? LOL, I dont think so. I will email papa by monday and see what the lame excuse will be.

PS.....I think Papa is an awesome guy and Im not mad at him, Im just disappointed that his EX has him by the nutsack. I jumped outta that phase with my EX long ago. She has NO control over anything I do period.


Again, have a good weekend all.

Mustang:

I understand about legal situations, Go over to HEARTSORES to see the change to that thread once the WS started snooping.

But, P# is divorced.

Maybe he shouldn't have posted his kids video here, but he fixed that.

And he can say anything he wants about her here. It only has to be close to the truth. He was M'ed to her. Libel laws haven't been tested on blogs yet.

AND let Kristy read. MAybe she will learn something.

AND When Kristy threatens to withhold the CHILDREN then P3 should fire back with all guns...

Sometimes, P3 can appear weak here, he's looking for advice. But he can man-up as needed.

You need to email him SO.