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I really need some help...My WH is overseas and confessed that he has had an EA w/ another woman over the span of about 2 weeks. He confessed to kissing her a few times but promised nothing else happened. He is coming home in Dec. for about 12 days and I wanted some advice on how to implement Plan A when he is here for just a short amount of time. He will not be back in the states, again, until, March. So I really want to make the best of Plan A while he is here..Can someone/everyone please give me some advice on it? Thank you
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How long did you date your H before you were married? You have been married for 10 months but were only together for 6 weeks before he went to Iraq. Is this his first overseas assignment? Was the EA with another member of the armed forces?
The first and most important answer to your question is that regardless of what you feel, if you want to try to save the M, you should read Surviving an Affair and learn about Plan A, lovebusting, etc. You only have a 12 day window during his R&R and he may already have some ideas what he wants to talk about. Even if he tells you he wants a divorce, that is hard to get in 12 days. So regardless of what he talks to you about, there will be no real action. Do your best Plan A for those 12 days. How long will it be before his tour is over?
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hey...we dated for about 2 1/2 years....this is his 2nd time over there...the ea was w/ another contract company..hy H is a DOD contracter and so was she...i have ordered SAA and waiting for it to arrive..best case, he will be home for good in march, worst case is sept....i just don't know what to do...i feel very lost
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A
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