I received three thick envelops from my attorny. One was a bill, not a big deal, but the thickest one contained several documentations.

(1) Petitioner's matrimonial interrogatories to be answered by respondent
(2) Requst of petitioner for the production of documents

Now, are they standard documents and normal procedure?

It could be standard, but I just get sick to my stomach each time I receive things like this. He and I were together for over decade, producing a beautiful child along the way, and he is declaring a war against me. He has asked to our MC once if she thought our 'feelings' will come back once we get divorced, but how on the earth does he think that would be the case, after going through such ugly legal battle???

I just can't believe this man, who swore that I was the most important thing in his life, has no shame to do whatever he wants to do to get $$$, even though it was HIM who got himself in troubles and had cheated on me. He feels he is a poor victim and is entitled to everything.

It really makes me feel sad.

Milk

Yes, they are standard documents, but I think they are often used to intimidate or stall. I recently had a joke of a "conference" with mine and WH's lawyer (WH wouldn't come in room and left before we finished.) I had a whole breifcase full of info with copies of some spreadsheets for WH's lawyer. WH's lawyer didn't even bother looking at any info, but sent me these same requests two weeks before our court date. He also filed a request for delay since "he will need time to look over this info." I told my lawyer that I want WH to answer the same questions, esp the ones asking about sexual contact with anyone other than spouse. My WH also seems to think I owe him. I think it's because he's still unhappy and has no one else to blame but himself.