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I've learned most of the details of my WW's A. She has no love for me at this point and is actively trying to hurt me and shows disregard for the welfare of our child. The details included the depth of her love for the OM, including unprotected sex, and special trips while I watched the kids (all the while she accuses me of not taking care of the kids).
The hurt is piling up. I am hanging on because the principle of this site seems to be that if we both agree to eventually follow the MB program, that we CAN recover our feelings for each other, even if things look very dark right now.
But at what point should I just stop putting myself in a position to keep getting hurt?
BH (me) - 36
WW - 35
DS - 4
DS - 2
DDay - Oct 06
PA started early 06
PA over, NC letter sent 11/26
WW hates BH, talks of D
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If she is still having contact with the OM, that is the way she is going to continue to be.
Is the OM married? Have you exposed the affair to everyone that could help?
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Hello LS,
things are slow on the weekend so have some patience and you are sure to get many more answers.
Can you give us a few more details about your situation? (When and how the A started, why you think it is over, what have you done about it, exposure etc)
Are you sure the A is over?
Have you read all the stuff on the web page? There is a lot to read to get informed. Do you know about Dr. Harley's plan A and plan B ?
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