Hi! My name is mike, and my wife does not seem to love me anymore. She seem to be more connected to complete strangers at the night club than to me. I have come a long way to change for her and for myself. I have stopped drinking and clubing I am totally faithful to my wife, even though I think she is seeing someone else. All I do is get money to pay bills and come home(All the bills are paid, money no problem), THATS MY LIFE. Maybe that sounds boring but I know It's for the better because there is nothing out there for me, my ultimate goal was to buy her that dream home. I don't see why she doesn't see my point of view on budgeting and sacrifice. When I mention that she should budget her money in order for us to get ahead, she jumps down my thoat. I am to the point where I had to get my own place and thats the last thing that I wanted to do, but she insists that I planned it all along. Sometimes she talks to me with such disrespect like I'm a child, I just don't understand what I have done wrong. When I walk in the room it's like I can feel her disgust for me, She says that she has been talking to an Ex all the long we have been together discussing our life with him.(YOU DON'T KNOW HOW BAD THAT HURT ME, BUT I TRY NOT TO LET IT SHOW) My life is my family thats all I know and I'm about to lose all of that. What should I do? Please Help Me!!! Mike

Hi Mike,
Have you ever tried to get her into see a marriage counselor? It sounds to me like you may have troubles communicating. Money issues are one of the biggest reasons people get a divorce, talking to someone trained in getting down to the root of the problem may be a good idea.

That aside, you may be right about your wife having someone on the side. Her talking to her Ex about you the whole time you have been together, is a direct assault on your marriage, some things just shouldn't go to anyone outside you and her, and especially to an Ex.

Read up on the board, there are a lot of people here. If you really suspect something between her and someone else, you may have to spy on her a bit. I did and confirmed what I suspected.

There is a lot of stuff here, a simple search can reveal a lot for you.