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Its a talk show that is on everyday discussing life issues. Todays topic was infidelity.

This guy comes on and says he had been married 3yrs, when he came home early from work one day and found out his wife was having an affair. Well, they ended up divorcing shortly afterwards, because his wife wanted to be with OM. Its a good thing too, the OM was doing drugs (this guys EX didnt even know). This guy contracted AIDS thru the use of drugs, gave it to this guys EX. They are both dead now.

Horrible, horrible story.

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Wow.....not even one.....my gosh that is horrible??? Oh well, maybe noone thinks this was as tragic as I did.

Stories like this is what those thinking about having an affair should hear. The HORRIBLE things that can come from an affair, not just the betrayal and lies. Worse things. Its like a person is playing russian roulette.

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My gosh, that is horrible! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />


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not even in the worst of times with my WW or even the OM would i wish this upon.

funny how tragic things happen because of our own choices yet our heart rages against God / others.

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A friend of mine and fellow poster from these boards' WW died from aids contracted through her affairs.

And affairees think they are "love " stories .... * sigh *


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Stories like this is what those thinking about having an affair should hear. The HORRIBLE things that can come from an affair, not just the betrayal and lies. Worse things. Its like a person is playing russian roulette.



The reality and rules of the world do not apply to affairees, remember. This situation would never happen to them, and if you tried to relate it, they would turn their heads, waaaaay too much reality. Riiiiight. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> What would be doubly tragic is if either one of the Waywards had children. What a waste...


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