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He's not going to be able to make a committment to the marriage if he is still in contact with the other woman. Is the affair ongoing? Has he established No Contact? Is the other woman married too? (if so, her husband needs to know about the affair)
Until he commits to No Contact, you can Plan A him, and expose the affair to anyone that will be helpful in breaking up the affair, realizing that exposure will piss him off in the short term, but if it ends the affair then it is effective.
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He has ended the affair. He has not had contact with her other than passing in the halls since two months ago. But I can tell days when he does pass her, he gets really depressed.
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He could be still in withdrawal. If I were you, I would post on the General Questions forum and give this some time. The Harley's say sometimes it is better to divorce when you are early in marriage with no children.
But Frank Pittman says that 60% of affairs are in the first couple years of marriage.
If you try your best to work it out, then 5 years from now you can look back with no regrets.
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