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Wow, thanks ML. I wish I could be so eloquent with my words.

I plan to get that voice recorder before I have this conversation; for documentation purposes and hopefully so ya'll can help me see through the WW fog.

I am out of here for now.

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So, are you back in the house yet???


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If you are not home perhaps tonight would be the perfect time. She can't run off and file a petition for divorce until, at the very least, monday.

However, the absolute worst thing you could do is cut yourself off from your support group. I hope you haven't disappeared.

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Has anyone talked w/ him?

Anybody know what's going on?

~ Marsh

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I have his number. I could give him a call. I expect that he is at home and doesn't want to post on the forum in front of his WW.


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Ahhh, OK, that makes sense.

I just wish we had an update.

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I know, I've been checking my computer like every hour.


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Anybody hear anything?

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too much going on now. Will post more details ASAP.

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Keep us updated and we can help you make adjustments to your plan as necessary. Hope you are doing alright.


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I talked with my man today, and he is back in the house with his WW and the kids. Needless to say, WW was not happy. He could not locate the laptop or the cellphone. WW was supposed to go visit a psychiatrist today, but is currently at OM's house. My man told me to tell you that a storm is brewing tonight when she gets home.

He said he is afraid that she may be on to this website, so he is going to lay low a little bit, and keep us informed as necessary. I think he sounds a lot better. He is much more calm and firm in his resolve. Keep up the good work.


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Way to go helping him and all JMWC95!!

I hope that he will resolve to stay in his home and call for an emergency custody hearing if WW tries to remove kids or goes to stay with OM. He should be documenting all of this in case this goes to court.

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Oh, someone is documenting it, alright.


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Eph,

If you fear your wife is reading here do not hesitate to email me for some private advice at the email address below.

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I'll post the whole story soon when I have time to sit down and do it.

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Nope. PI is keeping me updated on all activities.

I'll post the whole story soon when I have time to sit down and do it.

Ok, cool, cuz we all want to know what's happening.

So, the only reason you know about where she's going right now is b/c of the PI?

She doesn't know YOU know, right?

Hang tough.

Jim's right, we are all praying for you.

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Ok, cool, cuz we all want to know what's happening.

So, the only reason you know about where she's going right now is b/c of the PI?

She doesn't know YOU know, right?

Hang tough.

Jim's right, we are all praying for you.

~ Marsh

He knows because of the PI. She does not know about the PI. Considering she stopped for a "pit stop" at OM's house, and he spent the day with her afterwards, I have a feeling she will find out about the PI later tonight (hence Hurricane Eph).


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Thanks, Jim.

I'll be watching the weather reports for that hurricane tonight.

~ Marsh

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