My story has an interesting twist--my H started the A 4 years ago while we lived in IL. (I had no idea of the A while in IL) We recently moved to NC supposedly for a new start...a new job in a new state a new life for us and our 3 children. I discovered the A after we moved here. When confronted he said he would end the A but now he says he wants us both and has been visiting sites on polyarmous relationships. It is a bunch of hogwash and I will not go for allowing him to justify his affair like that.
I have read the book and am in the process of plan A. Do alot of people find it hard to resist the advice from loving friends and family to just get out and leave him? It is so hard to resist the urge to take my babies and run back to IL.
Anyway--I am confused,lost,hurt,searching for advice that will help me save my marriage.

Thanks in advance for any comments.
Suzanna42

dday-oct 13 2006
BS-42
WS-40
3 children 14,13,10