HelloOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooo Wow Ghost Town, thought you only saw them in the "wild west" lol <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

hello, not a ghost town just a quiet board. How can we help you?

Hi. Some of us left here.

I could definately use some advice. My husband and I split in August after years of marital unhappiness. I begged him to go to counseling and tried to make things better for us and our children. My pleas fell on deaf ears. Things continued to get worse. He was living in another state and working. While he was gone, he would come home and visit kids, etc but we were not seeing each other at all. Our divorce was pretty much finished and we reconciled and began counseling in early November. I really want things to work and we are both working so hard at making this be a great marriage. He is obsessive compulsive, so we have a lot of issues that we have to work on as far as that. He has also been verbally abusive for years to me. My EN have not been met. During the time we were seperated, I saw another man for a brief period who was also seperated from his wife and has returned to her. I don't feel like this was a true affair because to he and I, our marriage was over. I am really in a position because I want to tell my husband, but don't know if this what I should do. I don't really have feelings for the other guy, now, but want to know the right way to move on. Any advice from the ghost town?

On this issue, you might be better served on the general questions board - it's a much more active board. Most of the time on this board, the relationship issues being discussed are typically about children born as a result of an affair.