OKay,here it is.I have been married for 3 years.We started out great and then it went down hill after about 6-8 months.Then we started to fight alot,just arguing.i found out he had still been talking to an ex of his and he lied out of it.Well,this past Feb.he admitted to having an affair with the girl and they only had sex 1 time but they had been talking and stuff our entire marriage.i called her and talked to her and found out a few things.Anyway,we got over it and became so close.He is youth pastor and I am CHildrens church leader.Here recenly he has became angry all the time and he goes off into rages.He has abused me a few times.I love him and dont know what to do or why this is happening.I have 4 kids and they are scared also.pLease help.God bless you. [color:"blue"] [/color]