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Quote:<BR>If anyone had asked me if I could have dealt with my wife having an affair, continuing to have the affair while I knew about, separating from my family, and then raising a baby that is biologically the OM's---you can imagine what my response would have been.<P>But I'm doing it. In a very happy marriage<BR>---------------------------------------------<P>If we take the time to know someone before we "blast" them we may understand what they are trying to say.<P>Sorry for my "hardness" in the sadforever thread. I see that you have been through the same situation I now find myself faced with. In the midst of controversy we find friends.<P>Here's hoping that we can be friends as I would love to know more on how you "came to be"<P>
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I give you lots of credit. If I understand correctly you have forgiven your W for having an affair and you are rasing a baby that was a result of such affair???? If this is correct I give you a lot of credit for ding so. <P>Whish you the very best... God Bless You!
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Paul,<P>I saw your thread, and the only reasons I didn't respond is that you had gotten some excellent advice, and I'm very busy at work.<P>If you have specific questions, just fire away.<P>I didn't "take you to task" personally. I still hang out here (yikes, it's been over a year) solely to help folks understand the MarriageBuilder principles (granted it's through my interpretation, but I've "studied" under Steve Harley extensively). So there are no hard feelings. And for what it's worth---I'm a very devout Catholic---but I don't come at people seeking help from a Christian slant unless they are asking for that type of help. These behavioral principles that MarriageBuilder's espouses work very well regardless of religious affiliation.
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