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Am I Getting Too Comfortable?
#17851 10/05/99 07:35 PM
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Here's my problem, which many of you may not consider a real problem considering some of the things you are having to deal with. I consider myself pretty lucky. H left affair immediately, did not get OW pregnant, has not seen her since discovery. <P> He is doing everything possible to make me feel loved again. He's tender, sweet, loving, understanding, everything he was before the monster that had the affair took over. I feel I'm starting to let my guard down, and it is scaring me a little. I feel I can trust him again, but can I really? Am I setting myself up for another heartache, or is it really possible for a person to screw up like this only one time?
Re: Am I Getting Too Comfortable?
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I can't answer your question, just wanted to let you know that you are not alone in your fears. I am pretty much in the same situation you are. It has been 7 months since discovery and by all appearences H is over OW and trying very hard to be a loving and devoted, nonjudgemental, even-tempered man toward me and the kids. Kinda scary, like waiting for the other shoe to fall. <BR>Let's just not let our guard down for a minute! <P>Beth

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