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my husband I think is still having an affair with his exwife,
she called me a week before thanksgiving to tell me she is 3 months pregnant with my husbands baby, and she left a message on my voice mail saying that so I couldent ask her anything. I filed for divorce but then changed my mind cause my husband came home telling me that she is just lying trying to say whatever she can to break us up, I believe him that she lied about being pregnant because I remember her telling me when I met her that she had her tubes tied and cut and burned after the birth of their last son about 10 years ago. so the chances of her actually being pregnant are like 1% , anyway she has always tryed to say anything she could to break us up, I think she feels that if I divorce him that he will come back to her completely,anyway now its dec and he is starting to get real distant with me again, so I have been trying to get closer to him and talk to him about everything, last night he was at her house till 12 midnight so I totally had a panic attack last night and wanted to talk with him, and he totally pushed me away. I think he might have been with her in the past week cause we have not been together as far as sex in about 9 days ands he does not seem interested in me anymore. what am I to do?
should I act distant with him too?
what should I do to get his attention that I am done putting up with this?
thretening divorce does not work anymore, he just says if thats what you want then do it. any advice welcome~! thankyou.Love Lisa

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Repost this in the Infidelity/General Questions II forum which gets a lot more viewers. Add information like how long you have been together, how many children, how long the A has been going on, etc. I'm rather busy right now, but I thought I'd direct you to the best place to find answers for your questions.


Jim

BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
Status - In Recovery
Jim's Story

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