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#1785705 12/15/06 12:49 AM
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Its been almost 2 weeks since D-day for me, and already I feel a whole lot better. A friend whom I talked to the day after I found out had remarked last night that she was amazed at how fast my attitute and emotions have stabilized from the train-wreck I was 2 weeks ago.

I have God, and you guys to thank for that. I think the most important thing is knowing that I am not in a unique, impossible situation, and that countless others have also gone through what I'm going through now, and survived to fight another day.

I'm starting to implement plan A, after 2 weeks of feeling depressed, lost and like I couldn't go on without her. I'm more confident that I *can* survive without her, I can move one, with or without her. And I think that is a remarkable improvement. Thanks! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


Dev BS - 31 (me) WW - 29 M ~2 years, No kids DDay - 2nd Dec 2006 Exposed - 15th Jan 2007 NC started - 14th Jan 2007 NC broken 23rd Jan 2007 NC broken many times since Status: WS moved out 22 March 07 "to think"; A ongoing still; 2nd July 2007 - signed Divorce papers "I'm done!"
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It's good to hear you're doing better. Keep in mind that it isn't unusual to shift back into depression and anxiety at any time. That's why so many refer to it as an emotional rollercoaster.

Good luck.


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