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Sex within marriage survey #1785747 12/15/06 09:25 AM
Joined: Feb 2006 Posts: 5 L leesw OP Junior Member
OP leesw Junior Member L Joined: Feb 2006 Posts: 5	Hi, If you are willing, please consider participating in this survey on married sexual relationships. The survey consists of 12 questions where you select your answer from those provided and remain entirely anonymous. Thank you. PS--If you complete the survey and are willing, please post here that you have completed it so that it will be atop the forum for others to see. Thank you.

Re: Sex within marriage survey leesw #1785748 12/15/06 03:21 PM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 3,834 L lousygolfer Member
lousygolfer Member L Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 3,834	Tried it, and it timed out before accepting the survey.

Re: Sex within marriage survey leesw #1785749 03/26/07 09:31 AM
Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 4 J jullibean Junior Member
jullibean Junior Member J Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 4	Interesting survey. It actually touches on topics that I wish to have answers to as my two year marriage is a sexless one

Re: Sex within marriage survey leesw #1785750 03/26/07 09:34 AM
Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 4 J jullibean Junior Member
jullibean Junior Member J Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 4	Interesting survey. It actually touches on topics that I have in my two year marriage which is virtually sexless <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

Re: Sex within marriage survey jullibean #1785751 03/28/07 05:53 AM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,703 N nia17 Member
nia17 Member N Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,703	i took the survey.

Re: Sex within marriage survey nia17 #1785752 03/28/07 04:16 PM
Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 32 R ronski Member
ronski Member R Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 32	me too...depressing...

Re: Sex within marriage survey ronski #1785753 04/02/07 09:42 PM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 150 L LoveLost65 Member
LoveLost65 Member L Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 150	I guess that really summarizes why we're all here huh? well, many of us. i lived with my W for a year and then married her and have been married for 7 years.. Even when we lived together we had Sex less than 2 times a year... Now 8 years later, I wonder why I don't care about this relationship much anymore.... She's never wanted me... Still doesn't. Very sad.

Re: Sex within marriage survey LoveLost65 #1785754 04/02/07 10:08 PM
Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 1,306 E Eph525 Member
Eph525 Member E Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 1,306	I took the survey.

Re: Sex within marriage survey leesw #1785755 04/07/07 08:50 PM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,346 A AverageGuy Member
AverageGuy Member A Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,346	I took it. It is a pretty ho-hum survey. Me: 50. W: 50. Happily married since 1993. 3 kids.

Re: Sex within marriage survey AverageGuy #1785756 04/08/07 06:35 PM
Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 3 J joelsamilson Junior Member
joelsamilson Junior Member J Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 3	Took it. Depressing no sex life... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> The key to immortality is first living a life worth remembering...

Re: Sex within marriage survey joelsamilson #1785757 04/09/07 08:58 AM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 241 M mishes Member
mishes Member M Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 241	Did it! DDI - November 26, 2006 DDII - May 28, 2007 Married 20 years 3 childre - m/24, m/17, f/12

Re: Sex within marriage survey mishes #1785758 04/09/07 10:40 AM
Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 56 L LoveHimForever Member
LoveHimForever Member L Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 56	Done WS 48 BS 44 DD 6 Married 22 years DDay 5-20-06

Re: Sex within marriage survey LoveHimForever #1785759 04/09/07 10:53 AM
Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 9 A AperioCordis Junior Member
AperioCordis Junior Member A Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 9	Done.

Re: Sex within marriage survey leesw #1785760 04/10/07 10:04 PM
Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 9 C californiagirl Junior Member
californiagirl Junior Member C Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 9	I completed the survey. I thought there should be more options for negative feelings even when your spouse responds with participation. Sometimes it makes me nervous! It is depressing to read about so many people who have such infrequent sex, but at least I know I'm not alone!

Re: Sex within marriage survey leesw #1785761 05/13/07 06:47 PM
Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 8 H Happyfeet100 Junior Member
Happyfeet100 Junior Member H Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 8	Took the survey. I wish my husband could take it too. I'm the one who isn't giving him sex lately so I can only guess his answers if he did take this survey

Re: Sex within marriage survey Happyfeet100 #1785762 06/14/07 06:55 AM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 110 L LuckyLad Member
LuckyLad Member L Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 110	I completed the survey. I wish sex wasn't so important in a marriage. It can make you feel so loved and desired one day, and yet can make you feel so unwanted and "ugly" the next. Complicated issue. DDay 9.10.11 Me:BH

Re: Sex within marriage survey Happyfeet100 #1785763 06/14/07 08:36 AM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 1 M mockingbird Junior Member
mockingbird Junior Member M Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 1	I took it. I agree with Happyfeet 100; I wish my husband would take it. I'm the one who isn't interested in sex, but I do it to pacify him. We have some kind of sexual relations almost every day. I just go along. I wasn't always this way. I underwent treatment for breast cancer three years ago and it threw me into menopause early. It's supposed to be temporary, but I still have no libido. My doctor doesn't give much help -- just to be patient. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> MB

Re: Sex within marriage survey mockingbird #1785764 07/12/07 03:17 PM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 222 O OG_LOU Member
OG_LOU Member O Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 222	mockingbird, check out these three places Breast Cancer Main Forum Index http://community.breastcancer.org/ubbthreads/ubbthreads.php Moving beyond cancer http://community.breastcancer.org/ubbthreads/postlist.php?Cat=0&Board=UBB7 I WANT MY MOJO BACK! http://community.breastcancer.org/ubbthr...age=0#Post69566 The last address deals with libido and things to do so some of your libido comes back. I completed the survey months ago. Sad so many people can give up sex when it is so important to the other spouse. To the low drive spouse, if you only knew how rejected and lonely the higher drive spouse felt, you would have at least a minimum frequency and intensity you wouldn't go below. I can work all week and look forward to 30 minuest of closeness, only to be told it's too warm, too cool, too late, too early, too, too, too. It wasn't too when the spouse asked me to do something for her. Oh well givers and takers. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> Lou

Re: Sex within marriage survey Happyfeet100 #1785765 09/02/07 06:33 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 87 colorado 4 4myself Member
4myself Member 4 Joined: May 2006 Posts: 87 colorado	Took the survey...depressing.... Am VERY interested in seeing the results at some point!!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> -not just 4myself anymore... for BOTH of us ...we survive together, or not at all....

Re: Sex within marriage survey Happyfeet100 #1785766 11/25/07 12:28 AM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 64 M MrStrype Member
MrStrype Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 64	done Me: BH, 43 Her: FWW, 38 Married: Feb 29, 1996 Children: 2 Boys-11 & 14 EA started: sometime in 2006? PA started: 08/21/07 D-Day: 10/24/07 No Contact initiated: 10/24/07 OM: My "ex-best friend" of over 20 years.

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