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#1785747 12/15/06 09:25 AM
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Hi,

If you are willing, please consider participating in this survey on married sexual relationships. The survey consists of 12 questions where you select your answer from those provided and remain entirely anonymous.

Thank you.

PS--If you complete the survey and are willing, please post here that you have completed it so that it will be atop the forum for others to see. Thank you.

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Tried it, and it timed out before accepting the survey.

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Interesting survey. It actually touches on topics that I wish to have answers to as my two year marriage is a sexless one

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Interesting survey. It actually touches on topics that I have in my two year marriage which is virtually sexless <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

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i took the survey.

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me too...depressing...

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I guess that really summarizes why we're all here huh? well, many of us. i lived with my W for a year and then married her and have been married for 7 years.. Even when we lived together we had Sex less than 2 times a year...
Now 8 years later, I wonder why I don't care about this relationship much anymore.... She's never wanted me... Still doesn't.

Very sad.

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I took the survey.

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I took it. It is a pretty ho-hum survey.


Me: 50. W: 50. Happily married since 1993. 3 kids.
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Took it. Depressing no sex life... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />


The key to immortality is first living a life worth remembering...
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Did it!


DDI - November 26, 2006
DDII - May 28, 2007
Married 20 years
3 childre - m/24, m/17, f/12
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Done


WS 48 BS 44 DD 6 Married 22 years DDay 5-20-06
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Done.

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I completed the survey. I thought there should be more options for negative feelings even when your spouse responds with participation. Sometimes it makes me nervous! It is depressing to read about so many people who have such infrequent sex, but at least I know I'm not alone!

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Took the survey.
I wish my husband could take it too.
I'm the one who isn't giving him sex lately so I can only guess his answers if he did take this survey

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I completed the survey. I wish sex wasn't so important in a marriage. It can make you feel so loved and desired one day, and yet can make you feel so unwanted and "ugly" the next. Complicated issue.


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I took it. I agree with Happyfeet 100; I wish my husband would take it. I'm the one who isn't interested in sex, but I do it to pacify him. We have some kind of sexual relations almost every day. I just go along.

I wasn't always this way. I underwent treatment for breast cancer three years ago and it threw me into menopause early. It's supposed to be temporary, but I still have no libido. My doctor doesn't give much help -- just to be patient.

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mockingbird, check out these three places

Breast Cancer Main Forum Index
http://community.breastcancer.org/ubbthreads/ubbthreads.php

Moving beyond cancer
http://community.breastcancer.org/ubbthreads/postlist.php?Cat=0&Board=UBB7

I WANT MY MOJO BACK!
http://community.breastcancer.org/ubbthr...age=0#Post69566

The last address deals with libido and things to do so some of your libido comes back.


I completed the survey months ago. Sad so many people can give up sex when it is so important to the other spouse.

To the low drive spouse, if you only knew how rejected and lonely the higher drive spouse felt, you would have at least a minimum frequency and intensity you wouldn't go below.

I can work all week and look forward to 30 minuest of closeness, only to be told it's too warm, too cool, too late, too early, too, too, too. It wasn't too when the spouse asked me to do something for her.


Oh well givers and takers. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

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Took the survey...depressing.... Am VERY interested in seeing the results at some point!!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />


-not just 4myself anymore... for BOTH of us ...we survive together, or not at all....
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done


Me: BH, 43
Her: FWW, 38
Married: Feb 29, 1996
Children: 2 Boys-11 & 14
EA started: sometime in 2006?
PA started: 08/21/07
D-Day: 10/24/07
No Contact initiated: 10/24/07
OM: My "ex-best friend" of over 20 years.
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