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Joined: Nov 2006
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My husband left (details why, etc not important to my query here, but I will say we did not part on bad terms, but it was his choice to leave. We do not have kids)...

Okay...so husband left, said he would call me to check on me,etc, let me know about any lawyer,,etc. Well, I sent him an email to (again) ask him to stay and work it out (with counseling, etc). I never heard back. I also called/emailed twice to tell him I need his input and signature concerning a property that I was to sell. No word.

After TWO MONTHS, I heard from a mutual friend who spoke to husband, that he was instructed by his lawyer not to have ANY contact with me and that all my calls and email were being forwarded on to this lawyer.

I will add here, that we were to have a DISOLLUTION, not a divorce. Disollution is an agreement between two parties that actually sign the same papers, and have mutually agreeed on division of property, etc.

So.....it seems really insane to me that this lawyer would suggest this........and to top it all off, this (his) lawyer is not reaturning ANY calls or emails to MY lawyer!!!!

I am not so concerned with the Disollution, as I am getting the paperwork taken care of concerning the property I need to sell.

In additon...........until I found out about this instruction by the lawyer, I had no idea what became of husband, if he was okay,etc. Emotionally, just to have everything cut off suddenly like that was like a sudden death......especailly, as I said, we were not on bad terms, just dealing with some issues, and were even friendly and affectionate with each other up until that point....

I will say that my lawyer is APPALLED that his lawyer would advise this in this case...... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

Joined: Aug 2005
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I think it's really something else:

1) He told his lawyer some things that he knows would hurt his case, and his lawyer told him to shut up.

2) More likely, he doesn't want (or OW doesn't want him) to talk to you, and he's just using the lawyer excuss.

Either way, you need to protect yourself because this is a sign that it could get ugly.


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