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ok this is my situation, had an affair about 3-4 months ago that went for about 2 months or so. Im a male 30 years old and have a wife and child and son to come into this world in january. Hard to explain why i was in this the affair or what i was looking for. Me and my wife did have problems and i didnt think things would come up. i wanted to learn from my errors and make better of things with my wife and family and now with things arrising its like im trying to deal with my family and not about remembering stuff and trying to fix things and its all confusing for me. not getting any sleep, not eating right. and its like a never ending arguement that shows no hope. even for things to have strength for her doesnt even show. Just dont know what to do or to give up, or to keep pushing cause i do want my family. i do want my life.
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Welcome. Would your wife consider reading here?
The first thing I would do is get into some marriage counseling andd ask your wife to join you.
Then you need to figure out how this happened, and let your wife know that you are very sorry. After that, you can work on a plan to keep it from happening ever again.
Is your wife talking to you at all? She has the double heartbreak of betrayal, and at the time in her life when she most needs her husband.
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