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husband came clean, multiple flings over the years says he hasnt contacted or betrayed in last few years considering contacting ow I knew most of them to check out his story advice?
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Steer clear of OW..
This is between YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND....
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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one of ow recently contacted FWH
I have no proof of what really happened just his story hence why considering contacting OW
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Find some other way of discovering the truth..OW are LIARS...
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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no...all were single the 2 most recent still are single these women knew me, we socialized together on occasion before and after the "flings" I just didnt know my H was screwin around with them
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Im stuck...want to believe its all over but struggling to trust just his words of events. I need something to confirm his stories, to know he's telling the truth now. Need advice...is this all the past just deal and move on?
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do not contact ow. they lie, and they are like talking to a wall. they listen to nothing you say because the DO NOT CARE. they have their owned skewed truth and justifications and you will be made to feel badly, even worse, after talking to her. they usually run YOU down even tho they are the ho's .
trust me, i know. i had to block ow from my email. she sent me emails saying it was my fault my marriage didn't work, that i was an awful mother, etc.
find other ways to verify what he says.
mlhb
God first, family second, and all else will fall into place.
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Im stuck...want to believe its all over but struggling to trust just his words of events. I need something to confirm his stories, to know he's telling the truth now. Need advice...is this all the past just deal and move on? I am having the very same problem. WH had a Hooters waitress in his hotel room at 1AM. Said nothing happened. How do I get the truth? I really can't believe him. Should I just assume he is lying and try to forgive. I can't seem to get past without knowing. By the way, I contacted her, she gave a different story, so they are both lying. Don't contact the ow, but what should we do?
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any advice from some long time MBs on this for us?
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