Here is the snapshot, my WW and I are living separately she is running down the road to divorce. I have in all sense an purposes setup a home for me and my 3 daughter's and take care of them most of the time.... MIL is financially and emotionally supporting WW.... There was abuse in WW early childhold by both MIL and FIL, but now MIL has become the enabler.

When I talked to kids this morning, my oldest said dad there is a xmas present I think you should get for mom, its a microwave. Ideas started popping into my head of santa clause leaving a microwave on her front door,anonymous and all..... 15 minutes later daughter calls back and says grandma just showed up with a microwave.

Now MIL is helping with rent and all her financials including paying her lawyer.

I really think MIL is trying to get her little girl back, and doing whatever she can to keep WW thinking divorce is better than reconcilliation...

Its said when you can refer back to shows on the oxygen channel and point out aspect of your own life... I think mine the the wednesday night mini drama, about the love one had, the love one lost, and the love that was kept away forceable by the enemy of right and good.

End vent

have a merry christmas

Merry Christmas VR, are you going to have the kids for the holidays??

Sorry about MIL, her enabling WW does make the fall down take alot longer.