ML:

Thanks for your response. You may be completely right about some people not being cut out for Plan A. When I last talked to SH he said I should stay just where I am in a modified Plan A and that Plan B would not be good right now. Not the right timing. This was about 10 days ago.

WH stopped by tonite to pick something up and it just happened to be at dinner time. I figured he may show up at this time but I just busied myself with dinner preparations for DD and me. So when he came in I had chicken cooking and fresh shrimp with garlic and butter. He immediately started to comment about how great it smelled and how wonderful it was to come into a house with good cooking in the air. He was inspecting the pans, etc. and hanging around. I asked him what he was doing for supper and he said nothing. I then asked him if he would like to eat with us as there was plenty of food. He immediately took off his coat and accepted the invite.

He mixed himself a martini and then commented on my new shirt and how much he liked it. Said some very nice things about how well I looked and how much weight I have lost,etc. It was nice to get the compliments.

Anyway, shortly after eating he left as he was going to the office to work a little bit before Monday morning. All in all it was an impromptu and pleasant dinner with WH.

WH did say he will make an appt with his counselor for this week and let me know so I can email him some questions. He seemed quite fine with that and did not come across as angry or tense about it (which is an improvement from before). I will be working on those questions for sure.

Meanwhile, just trying to keep busy. I've been doing a lot of shopping for upcoming trip to Mexico with DD (Feb 19) which is both good and bad. Helps pass the time but the bills are definitely growing. Tomorrow I work (in Xray) and then off to my sister's for the evening.

Now .... thinking of good questions to ask my WH.

I'll try and let you know what I come up with.
Thanks, all.