Im new here out of desperation I am posting this. I met my husband in college, we were in a relationship for 2 yrs, broke up a few yrs got back together in jan 06. I got pregnant in july with help of fertility drugs we married in oct. Im having triplets!! A few days ago a woman called my home stating my she had lived with my husband and he had text messaged her ststing "hey" 3x over the course of last week and she called our house thinking he was not married and wanting to know what he wanted. She also told me he took her to dinner 5 months ago, was all over her and she thought he wanted to get back together and then she didnt hear from him until the text messages, her last words to me were you can have him, I dont want the cheater.
My husband told me he was texting her becasue he felt bad not calling her to tell her he got married and wanted closure. He told me he only took her out to dinner as a friend. I think he is full of it! He wont giv eme his cell phone bill and is begging me to givs him a second chance. I think he was going to continue to see this woman or keep contact "just in case". HELP! I feel I may have married a big mistake and am losing my trust.

Rhonda,
First, congrats on the P, take care of yourself and the babies first and foremost. Second, this section of MB(Marriage Builders) is actually more for a P(pregnancy) or child as a result of an A(affair). You will get much more advice and help from the General Questions II section, which deals will all sorts of situations. Third, read everything you can get your hands on, especially books recommended by this site! I wish you luck, and hope that you can find peace in your situation, some how.