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How is this
WW I hate to let this go because I remember so many times watching you in that mirror as you would get ready. I hope you see the same beautiful woman in this mirror that I see every time I look at you. LOVE IT!!!! ~ Marsh
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Mind if I borrow those lines? My WW wants one of the mirrors in our house as well.
Divorced on 3/25/2008 but I have primary legal and physical custody of my 2 kids. Plan A Thread Plan B ThreadEphesians 5:25 - Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
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I don't mind at all. It will be the first time I actually helped somebody out on here.
But I can't take full credit, SD gave me the beautiful part.
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DDay 8/4/06
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**A Warrior does not give up on what he Loves, he finds the Love in what he does.**
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Since we have snow on the ground this morning which is rare here. Usually 1 or 2 times per winter. I called to talk with DD and WW answered. DD was outside and I took the priviledge to talk with WW for a few minutes. We laughed about what DD was doing and I asked about DD1 and she was still asleep. I asked her if they had power and heat and she said yes. Then I said " if you need anything let me know and I willl bring it to you." She said OK and that was it. But I did talk with her calmly and I was upbeat. Hope I planted some more seeds.
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DDay 8/4/06
Seperated 8/18/06
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**A Warrior does not give up on what he Loves, he finds the Love in what he does.**
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Nice. Building building -making pHB look good and not desperate
M2L
ME BH 36 - FWW 33
2 kids
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Sometimes waywards can be like Laxatives ..... They irritate the crap out of you.
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Nice. Building building -making pHB look good and not desperate Not sure if I am doing any good but I am sticking with Plan A. I just hope and pray that the tide is turning.
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DDay 8/4/06
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Plan A Start 1/4/07
**A Warrior does not give up on what he Loves, he finds the Love in what he does.**
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Growing with Plan A is good. You know that. Turning the tide takes time and Christ's love from you to your WW. She is sick and needs her H to help her and she doesn't even know it.
***drive by jacking***
Marsh,
Can you help with maryamb? She is about to go way too far into an EA. She doesn't want it, but is having a hard time with it. I thought a FWW would be able to help.
thanks
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ME BH 36 - FWW 33
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Sometimes waywards can be like Laxatives ..... They irritate the crap out of you.
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I must have done something right or wrong because I have called back 3 or 4 times to talk to DD and getting no answer. I hope she is fighting off my kindness. Maybe she is ignoring me. Heck I don't know. I wish I could get in her mind and just see what is going on in there.
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Married 3/28/1992
DDay 8/4/06
Seperated 8/18/06
Plan A Start 1/4/07
**A Warrior does not give up on what he Loves, he finds the Love in what he does.**
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Ulp! No, you don't want a peek into her mind. It is utter chaos. That's why ONE of you has to be the responsible adult, and you are. It would be far to scary to even get a glimpse of the havoc she has to deal with every waking moment.
Your job is simply (easier said than done) to help keep the chaos in place, with a well-executed Plan A, which you are doing, and getting better at doing, each day.
Continue on this path and her chaos will worsen.
BH - me 53, ONS 1979
FWW - 51, 2 EA's, 1 PA
Last D-Day, Sep. 30, 2003
Last Contact/recovery began 2-26-04
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Did I miss something?
Did you give her the mirror, PHB?
~ Marsh
M2L, I checked out the thread you pointed me to, it looks like you did great there. I'll keep watch on it, tho.
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No I haven't gave her the mirror. But I did talk with her today. I tried to keep talking for as long as she would talk. Our conversation is in one of the post above.
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DDay 8/4/06
Seperated 8/18/06
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No I haven't gave her the mirror. But I did talk with her today. I tried to keep talking for as long as she would talk. Our conversation is in one of the post above. See. I knew I missed something. Good job on the conversation. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> When is the next time you'll see DD again? I was thinking...is your WW a good cook? Does she make something you liked to eat? Maybe the next time you talk to her, you could bring it up and tell her how much you miss that dish.... ~ Marsh
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Seperated 8/18/06
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**A Warrior does not give up on what he Loves, he finds the Love in what he does.**
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"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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Married for 16 years
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PHB,
I was thinking of you today. What happened?
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What is it man?
We
are waiting.........
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WW probably found thread.
Hi, Mrs. Paranoid HB.
Why not tell us your side of the story????
Mr. Wondering
FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered
"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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