M2L,

Will you please edit some of those periods in your post?

They are messing up this page in the thread.

~ Marsh

Marsh:

Maybe M2L should use Pep's

"Foot tapping" line

But come on down paranoid!

done - so sorry <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />

Ok guys don't have a lot of time but I have found out over the past few days that WW is not only seeing 1 guy but is already cheating on him. I have just had enough and this is to much for me to overcome. I guess you can say Plan B went into effect last Monday. I have lost everything I ever had for her. I am moving on with my life because I know I will be much happier ifI do, rather than not knowing or being able to trust her again. Funny thing is I am at peace with this decision. Not healed completely but the things that I have found out have sure helped that process. Thanks for everything, all the advice and all the encouragement. It was well worth it. I know I am a better person today than 2 months ago. I will check back every so often to let everyone know what is going on. I meet with lawyer on Wed. and I am requesting the quickest divorce possible.

PHB,

So sorry to hear this. You will be in my prayers.

I hope you go for custody of DD or at the very least file to protect her from being around OM.

I wish you all the best and hope you will continue to update your situation.

~ Marsh

You think that you can just walk away from us?

pHB,

You need to stick around here and learn about Plan B and/or D. I have not been in either, only read about them. Others can help with those.

Is this truly want you want? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

(((((pHB

I will not walk away. This is what I truly want now.

I am going for custody. I will update when news happens but not daily as usual

I wish I could hug all of you.
(((((((((((MBer's)))))))))))))

Thanks

Do you mean now as in tonight?

Or do you mean now as in - I reach this point and my mind is made up?

Just skip my question. I think I know the answer.

Keep us updated from time to time and best of luck.


God bless

My mind is made up. I have peace about this decision. I told my pastor today, that if the Lord's will is for us to be back together then it will happen. Sometimes people just never turn from their ways and do the right thing.

I will not stand in the way of the Lord but right now I feel he is leading me elsewhere to protect me and my DD. I will continue to listen to him and if somethings happens I will follow that. But as for now and my immediate future, my life no longer contains my WW.

pHB, so sorry to hear the news. You have fought this with an iron will and a wounded heart. No one could have asked for more.

Take your time, and be totally at peace with your decision.

((((((((((pHB))))))))))

Best wishes,
SD

So sorry to hear this HB. You're still in my prayers. And your DD as well. I pray you can heal from this quickly. Keep us updated.

Hugs.

Called WW last night to ask her if she wanted to move the separation date. She asked why, why, why. I told her that I was ready to move on. She said well ok. So we talked about a date to move it to and decided Feb.6th. This was my first choice.

Then today at work she calls me and ask me again why the sudden change. I told her again I was ready to move on because this has been to much to bear. She said what date did we decide on and I told her Feb 6th. She then asked if I had met someone. I said no because that wouldn't be right and I told you I would not do that to DD. She said I think you have. I said well if I have is that going to change your mind? she said no, I said well I haven't but I am still ready to move on and fully heal. She said well OK if that is what you want. I said this is not what I wanted, It was the only option I have left. WW this was your choice.

I left it at that because it was ultimately her choice. I know I requested to move the date up but I can't keep finding out different things that she is doing and stay sane. So I am moving on.

You handled that well. You'll continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

Be prepared for a "sudden turnaround", as some of the most fogged have a moment of truth when the light appears at the end of the tunnel.

Prepare yourself for her returning and asking for another chance, because it happens, more often than not. Primarily because the "other" interests seldom pay off.

Better prepared than blindsided, I always say!

Best wishes,
SD

PHB,

I'm not surprised she's acting this way.

Are you really OK w/ your decision?

~ Marsh

Did you mean Feb. 6th????

....cause that's today.

Mr. Wondering

PHB

On top of all of this....what is the sitch w/ "dropping the bomb" on OM?