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Hey all,
My husband is taking very important professional exams on Thursday at 1 and Friday at 2. He needs to pass - this is his last chance without having to begin the process again and retake the 7 parts he has already passed.

Passing will mean a boost for us financially, but it will also be good for our recovery- my part anyway.

These tests are huge triggers for me. When his affair was still an EA, he spent 2 weekends at a class- all of his downtime was spent chatting (cyber sex I guess) with the OW. Now, when he takes a class for the tests, it is very hard for me. Either I go, or last time he went with a male friend and did not take his computer. He is good to help me with this part.

To take the test we go to her town. I go with him, but it is still hard to do.

When he took them last June it was on the anniversary of D-day. Today was 18 months.

I need this chapter of our lives to close. We are doing great in rcovery. I just need to get this behind us. He needs to get it behind him professionally.

Please pray that he will be able to pass this time. This is the third time for him to take these two parts. He is not a good test taker, but he is very good at his job. Too bad they don't count that in the test.

These are difficult tests for a lot of reasons.

I really appreciate the prayers.

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I don't believe it's OT. I've been including MBers in my prayers everyday...both praying for and thanking God for you all. I'll be sure to add a "special dispensation" for your H. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

(((MF)))

LilSis


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