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As part of a support network, I think it is important to share in our successes and set goals.
Let's celebrate the growth we've made. No matter how small or large. Let's also think of some goals for the next year (or day if it's all we can handle).
Please take a minute to share each a Brag & Goal.
Thanks for being here.
Michelle
me BW - 32
WH- 32
Married 6/01
EA 10/01 turn PA 2/02 (denied for 4 years)
ONS 5/02
DD 10/03
DD #2 3/05
D-Day Jan 06
EA #2 1/06
turned PA 5/06 ???
WH moved out 7/06
WH moved in w/OW 10/06
Divorce date 1/07
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BRAG -
I am proud to say that I have been able to put what is best for my children first. It often hurts to talk about their father in his best light but I have committed to encouraging their relationship with him.
GOAL -
Cut out Drama.
I get wrapped up in gaining sympathy from others.
I encourage them to gossip about my WH. (Not always overtly but I do not discourage the bashing.)
I hang on their every word about my WH and his current actions.
If I am honest with myself this is still reacting to him.
I feel that my best road to recovery will not include my reactions but my own actions based on what is the right choice for me right now.
Questions?
Please share your own.
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