The affair ended one month ago- the day I found out he called her and told her he told me everything, he was going to work on the marriage and could no longer communicate with her. He says he has not spoken to her or responded to any of her e-mails- but she keeps emailing. She sends a couple a week wanting to know what's up, telling him he is a coward for not talking to him and wanting to know why he can't talk or she will just shoot an email joke over to him. What should I do? I keep telling my husband I think she is very desparate and will try anything. On one e-mail she even told him- she did not believe him that I knew everything. He says she does not call and if she did he was tell her he did not want to talk because he is not interested in continuing a relationship with her. My husbands says to ignor it and she will eventually stop. Is he right? Do I do nothing or should I call write a letter etc- and ask her to stop. BTW the only reason I know about the emails is because I've asked him to inform me of any communication or attempted communication between them. Therefore, I feel he is being honest with me. He can not change his email address- it is a work account.

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Block her email address or change addresses...

He can send her written notice to stop contacting him then if she continues he can file a restraining order.

A NC letter would get the job done nicely and there are several examples on the site.

If he is telling the truth then he should have no problem doing the following: The two of you should write OW a brief email stating that WH has been showing you all of her emails and that he is is adamant about not having any further contact with OW and any attempts in the future to contact him will be ignored.

She might try for a little while but if he means business and tells her to get lost she will give up. If he isn't willing to do this then that means he still wants to have access to her.

He should be able to block email from her.