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Here's a pity post....
Been separated 3 months now, D is in process. Yet I hold out hope that we can someday reconcile since I still love my WW.
Been a rocky road the past few years (you can read my prior posts about her mental issues) but I still want her back for some unknown reason.
Yesterday during a conversation she told me that she's In Love with her new BF. She's been seeing him for about 1 1/2 months. Say's there is no way we will ever get back together as husband and wife. That hurts.........
Guess I have something to talk about with my IC at today's appointment.
BS (me) - 46
WW - 37
Separated on Sept. 1, 2006
Divorced June 2007
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(((((((((HT))))))))))) I'm so SORRY that you are hurting still from your WW. I hope that you are able to move forward and have a good life regardless of your WW. It appears that you are headed in the right direction! I have faith in you! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge.
Thomas Carlyle
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Thanks Rinder. Should be easy, but it's not. You feel like you've lost your right arm. Up until a year ago we were best friends.......so gotta deal with the loss of a best friend too.
BS (me) - 46
WW - 37
Separated on Sept. 1, 2006
Divorced June 2007
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Up until a year ago we were best friends.......so gotta deal with the loss of a best friend too. In that regard, I can relate. I'm struggling to regain that, and it's so uncomfortable sometimes. On a positive note, there are people who get D and reM! I have seen it!
A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge.
Thomas Carlyle
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I'm just so curious as to how someone can move on so fast and forget anything/everything that happened during a marriage - friendship?
Good stuff......Intimacy, Kids, vacations, cruises, family events, etc. Does it ever enter the mind?? Or do they push it down so they can forget? Her Mom was married 4 times and tells her that if she could do it over again, she would still be with hubby #2 (her natural father). I'm hubby #2 and the father of her child. I'm also the longest relationship she's ever had in her life by far.
I was willing to forgive and start over but she just seems to be done..........Period, exclaimation. She still calls everyday (I never call her) just to see what's up. If she's so in love with the other guy, why call me about dumb stuff?
Very confusing.......
BS (me) - 46
WW - 37
Separated on Sept. 1, 2006
Divorced June 2007
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