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I found out a few months ago my wife of 17 years has been having an affair on and off for three years. She had moved out prior to that claiming she needed her space, and yes that was a red flag for me. She moved back in but says she is still is in love with this man and claims she loves me but, is not in-love with me (bet you all have heard that one before). The man is married and his wife knows also. My wife plans on moving out Monday so I think I will have to resort to plan B right away. My wife says she does not want to make our marriage work so it is tough for me to make her try. Although she says she still wants to help pay for things such as the house payment. Should I take her money or should I completely separate the finances? We have one 13 year old boy, who seems to be handling all the chaos pretty good. He will stay with me. Any advice anybody has would be helpful. Thanks
ME BH 42 - WW 41
1 kid 14 years old
DDAY April 13th 2006
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Why did she move back in?
Are you sure the other man's wife knows?
Take her money.
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she said she moved back in to try and make our marriage work. Yes the other man's wife knows. I stay in contact with her at least once a week.
ME BH 42 - WW 41
1 kid 14 years old
DDAY April 13th 2006
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