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I have been married for 18 years to my high school sweetheart, who cheated with some woman he met on line , they taked on the phone and possibly met (he says no). He claims that he was angry at my cheating (which happend years before why got married)
I am hurt by this, they talked about everthing.I can't believe that he held on to the anger for 18 years, or is it just his excuse.. My heart aches
oh and before I forget to add, he is a recovering alcholic who has started drinking again- which he blames on feeling bad for my pain. please someone help
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Please post again in General Questions II - it's MUCH busier than here.....
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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Welcome - It's just one excuse after another with him. Let me get this right - he cheated on you because you cheated 18 years ago - BEFORE getting married. And now, he needs to drink, even though he is a recovering alcholic, because you feel pain because he cheated.
Is that his explanation? Are you going to buy that?
Last edited by believer; 01/07/07 09:06 PM.
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