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Hey guys, Anika is feeling a bit neglected and ignored..I don't think anyone has responded to her post...She is in a deep dark place today and really needs to be lifted....

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Could you bump it up?

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Hey Believer, how do I bump it up?

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Post to it and say bump.

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BUMP


"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband." BS-38 (me) WH-34 0 kids Together 3 1/2 years Married almost one year before DDay WH EA 9/06 DDay 11/06 Plan A 1/07 WH asked for LSA 2/07 Plan B 03/07 LSA effective 3/07 H moved out 3/07
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what forum is she posting on? Are you sure it's GQII? She should copy/paste her thread over here, if not...

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FWW - 51, 2 EA's, 1 PA
Last D-Day, Sep. 30, 2003
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Anybody know where this post is?
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WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
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Nope. I have posted to her before, but couldn't find it today.

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I will find her post and copy and paste it...


"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband." BS-38 (me) WH-34 0 kids Together 3 1/2 years Married almost one year before DDay WH EA 9/06 DDay 11/06 Plan A 1/07 WH asked for LSA 2/07 Plan B 03/07 LSA effective 3/07 H moved out 3/07
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Hey guys thanks for replying!

I was not asking because of the lack of responces. I reaaaaaly appriciate all the input that I have gotten. I truly do not know what I would have done without this sight in the past few weeks. The encouragement and the ability to just vent. I also appriciate some of you straight shouters (pepperband and jmwc:)) and also the people who have given me a lift in my spirits when I felt like I wanted to end it all (believer and lovegod)

I want to make sure that the questions that I ask are not to personal and ok. Just like AA has a set of rules as far as what is ok and not ok I was wondering if with the mb sight had a set of unspoken rules.

_ad_ thank you for responding. I really do want my marriage to at least have a fair shake and if it does die I want to go out knowing that I gave my best. I believe that at some point my husbands beer goggles will come off and I want to
be ready spirtually and phyiscally for what the future holds
with or without him.

You always tell someone you never know what you will do until you are in the situation and you walk in their shoes. The thing with this sight is that almost evreyone hear has walked in these shoes.

JMWC from previous post
I will go to corporate. I am not sure how to get that info. as far as the number to contact. Will research tommrow

On a side note. Does anybody know how long affairs generally last and is there a less chance of reconcilation when partner moves in with ow?

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The above is all I can find from her posts. She is the one who's WH is living w/ OW....she had the outburst at his work to him and to her...They have only been married less than a year....She has not been able to Plan A him b/c he will not contact her...She apparently wrote the two of them a letter..not sure what it said..I will get her to post as soon as I talk to her....


"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband." BS-38 (me) WH-34 0 kids Together 3 1/2 years Married almost one year before DDay WH EA 9/06 DDay 11/06 Plan A 1/07 WH asked for LSA 2/07 Plan B 03/07 LSA effective 3/07 H moved out 3/07

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