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My husband of 13 years and father of our children ages 8 and 11, told me recently he had an affair. The affair was 3 months long but he felt he had feelings for her and loved her. I convinced him to stay but he left last week to stay with her. I am devastated! When we have talked he says that I deserve better, that what he did was too bad, that he cant deal with the guilt of what he did. He says he misses us and when I talk to him on the phone he doesnt say much. I am not ready to give up. He has said to me that once he is gone and if he misses us there is a chance he will change his mind. I have told him that I love him and this will always be his home. No matter how much I have begged him to come home that doesnt work. I dont want to pressure him so that being with her seems even better. What do I do now?
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slmom - Repost this as soon as you can on the General Questions II forum. There is a lot more traffic there and the experts will start weighing in right away. The weekend is a little slower but it should pick up fast on Monday.
I am so sorry for what brought you here but you have come to the right place.
Start reading everything you can around this site. Learn the basic concepts and acronyns as soon as you can.
Repost right away on GQII.
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