I am getting concerned, my wife recently contracted genital herpes. She states it is from me kissing her while she had a "fever blister" and then performing orally on her genitals. Something just strikes me as very odd about this, we have been married for 6 years and just now this happens to occur? Maybe I am just being paranoid but I have absolutely no idea how to handle this situation. Can someone tell me I am over-reacting? Or what I should do? Any help would be greatly appreciated.

The last I read from you, the two of you hadn't had sex for 2 years. If that is correct, she is cheating. Zip on over to the general questions II forum where the experts are.

First thing that would have to happen is , you kiss her she has simplex on her lip. You then perform oral sex, the simplex on your mouth goes to her vagina. Or you touch her mouth with your finger, finger sucking play caressing the lips etc. Then you touch her vagina. The point is , somehow the herpes simplex has to be gotten from her mouth to her vagina. Now unless she is very flexible and into self pleasure , then you would have had to have transmitted it to the genitals.
Being the pro marriage , love, fuzzy bunnies type of bro that I am. I would say be open , think about how you may have inadvertently transmitted the herpes to her vagina.
Although IF (big IF) you had not then it is very unlikey that she developed herpes without sexual relations.
ALso look into your email accounts , keep an ear out in the relationship for something hinting at an affair. Don't freak out and hire a P.I. , just don't be blind. If there is an affair it will reveal itself.
Til then , do not love bust her, and keep being a faithful loving supportive partner. If this were just bad luck getting herpes on the genitals, you would not want to hurt anything you have going for the positive now would you?
Peace out !

Wow , gosh. I must have really missed a lot if she hasn't been with MR. Nc in two years. Maybe on another thread in the past. I agree with you very much believer.

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