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#1810036 01/15/07 10:24 AM
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Is there any way to reverse babble him if he says he wants a divorce?

Also is it ok to say aomething about him treating me like I am the enemy here-I have done nothing wrong.

Thanks

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I'm a rookie here...please define "reverse babble".


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Is there any way to reverse babble him if he says he wants a divorce?

Also is it ok to say aomething about him treating me like I am the enemy here-I have done nothing wrong.

Thanks

H: I want a D
You: I don't want to be M to a cheater also.

H: you don't understand me, I want out.
You: I want to real M not a 3 person M.

H: You don't listen to me at all - I'm done.
You: glad to hear your done with her



You can tell him how you feel, but use the I statements.

"I don't like the way you are treating me."

"I am hurt by your actions"

"I want a better M between us"


Things like that.


M2L

ME BH 36 - FWW 33
2 kids
DDAY May 06


Sometimes waywards can be like Laxatives ..... They irritate the crap out of you.

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