Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum

This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at mbrestored@gmail.com
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 2 of 2 1 2
Joined: Apr 2006
Posts: 2,693
F
Member
Offline
Member
F
Joined: Apr 2006
Posts: 2,693
What someone should do is take the proof to a Prosecuter and ask for the WS and OP to be prosecuted.

Even if it is an antiquated law if it is on the books still it is illegal.

I think the main issue is making sure the information you hand over has been legally obtained.

Many things that are recommended here are not legal.

So I guess hiring a PI would be the best idea.

I can't wait to see someone arrested for this and then prosecuted.

I hope someone in the DA's office does want to make a name for themselves.


BS 38
FWW 35
D Day 10/03
Recovery started 11/06
3 boys 12, 8 and a new baby


When life hands you lemons make lemonade then try to find the person life hands vodka and have a party.
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 6,316
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 6,316
Mrs. W<~~~FWW in Michigan doing a happy dance that I returned to our marriage and am the proud owner of an "F" for LIFE!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered

Joined: May 2006
Posts: 1,372
A
Member
Offline
Member
A
Joined: May 2006
Posts: 1,372
Hey, Mr. W ... Do you think it would make a difference for Sis to just mention it to the prosecutor in HER case? Something along the lines of prosecuting ALL of the felons in this case ....? My guess is that WH and OW both already admitted their relationship when the first incident happened.

Would it have any effect on her sentencing?

Just thinking....

Joined: Oct 2005
Posts: 6,025
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Oct 2005
Posts: 6,025
Quote
Hey, Mr. W ... Do you think it would make a difference for Sis to just mention it to the prosecutor in HER case? Something along the lines of prosecuting ALL of the felons in this case ....? My guess is that WH and OW both already admitted their relationship when the first incident happened.

Would it have any effect on her sentencing?

Just thinking....

Doubt it. It's irrelevant....just like the "everybody else is doing it defense" HOWEVER I'm not a criminal lawyer so who knows. It's not like she's up against time in jail...it's merely a slap on the wrist and she's already plead guilty. The case is OVER.

BTW, I got an email from good ole Jimm5... that indicated the Statute of Limitations appears to be 6 years in Michigan....meaning they could go back and prosecute old adulterers if they were so inclined. But trust me...that AIN'T gonna happen anytime soon. They would need at least ONE solid unsympathetic test case with rock solid proof first before any Prosecutor in Michigan is going after random waywards.

The way this all actually could likely end up being tested is when someone gets actually charged with Sexual Criminal Conduct (caught doing something in semi-public with their mistess) and they try to weasel out of it saying it was consentual and being carried out in private. The crafty Prosecutor MAY then just end up saying "so what" ... it's adultery, which is a felony and we can prosecute you for CSC 1 anyway". Then the case makes it's way up the Appeals ladder and hopefully sticks (which I doubt).

Mr. Wondering

Joined: Jan 2006
Posts: 54
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Jan 2006
Posts: 54
Perhaps we should consider just instituting sharia law so that we can stone adulterers to death if they are married and punish sex out of wedlock with 100 lashes.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sharia#The_penalty_for_adultery

Adultery is a horrible thing. Adultery has no place in the secular penal code.

Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 3,525
N
Member
Offline
Member
N
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 3,525
Adultery has no place in the secular penal code?

Why ever not?

An adulterer can walk away with half your assets plus spousal support and custody of your kids after giving you an STD.

Sounds like a GREAT place for secular law to intervene.

Joined: Jan 2006
Posts: 54
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Jan 2006
Posts: 54
Quote
Adultery has no place in the secular penal code?

Why ever not?

An adulterer can walk away with half your assets plus spousal support and custody of your kids after giving you an STD.

Sounds like a GREAT place for secular law to intervene.

Sharia law for the win! It's got historical precident. Muhammand and Allah are totally behind you. One more virgin in heaven for each stone thrown!

Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 3,525
N
Member
Offline
Member
N
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 3,525
And the REAL objection to a legal penalty for the rape of your spouse?

Joined: Jan 2006
Posts: 54
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Jan 2006
Posts: 54
There is no objection. God is behind you! Allahu Akhbar!

Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 3,525
N
Member
Offline
Member
N
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 3,525
Well I guess we are all set then.

Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 2,150
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 2,150
Mebe,

Penalizing adultery has nothing to do with religion at all. Sure I would probably garner support for it from the religious community, but adultery in today's society is tantamount to Russian Roulette, and in a society where there is no penalty for adultery (as in our civilized western societies) adultery is glamorized and practically revered in media, certainly granted social acceptance. That needs to stop in a big way.

Like you, I have a strong opinion also. Stoning may be extreme for Westerners so how about Penitentiary instead.

The woman who ran over her adulterous husband is serving jailtime, I should have been her lawyer: Betrayed Spouse PTSD is a fact just waiting to be proven in a court of law, adultery is a lethal form of the most insidious domestic abuse. I can't wait to get my law degree! You'll know my true identity when I do. I'll be on a crusade for justice.


[color:"#39395A"]***Well, it's sort of hard to still wonder if you were consolation prize in the midst of being cherished.***
- Noodle[/color]

Devastation Day: Aug 26, 2004
[color:"#2964d8"]"I think we have come out on the other side... meaning that we love each other more than we ever did when we loved each other most." [/color]
[color:"#7b9af7"]
~Archibald MacLeish[/color]

Very Happily Married
Me FBS - 44
Him FWS - 51
I married him all over again, May 07
Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 2,155
L
Member
Offline
Member
L
Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 2,155
Quote
Betrayed Spouse PTSD is a fact just waiting to be proven in a court of law
10S: If I weren't such a chicken, I probably would have been a good test case for you. I'm SURE I would have met the DSM criteria for PTSD. But baring my soul on this forum is public enough...there's no way I would have gone to trial and subject myself to public scrutiny in my own community. I've been humiliated enough.

That said...I wish you luck! Go out there and kick some wayward a$$.

Page 2 of 2 1 2

Moderated by  Fordude 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Forum Search
Who's Online Now
0 members (), 594 guests, and 60 robots.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
Bibbyryan860, Ian T, SadNewYorker, Jay Handlooms, GrenHeil
71,838 Registered Users
Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
Copyright © 1995-2019, Marriage Builders®. All Rights Reserved.
Site Navigation
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5