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I have been lurking on this site for about a month now, and it has helped me immensely to get thru the most difficult time of my life.
I will post my whole story in a few days, but my immediate need is for some sample NC letters. Can anyone provide a link to a sample NC letter thread?
Some quick facts: (1) there has been no actual contact since prior to DDay, (2) there have been at least two attempts of cell phone calls by OM since DDay, (3) WW informed me of attempted contacts by OM, and allowed me to listen to VM first.
WW has agreed to NC, and has also agreed to send NC letter that we will both approve. Please help me with a link to examples.
Thanks
"You cannot dream yourself into a character; you must hammer and forge yourself one." Thoreau
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LB, here is the one from Surviving an Affair:
Dr. Harley's (From SAA)
(OP), I want you to know that out of respect and love for my wife and children, I have come to realize that I must never see or talk with you again. My relationship with you was a cruel indulgence that (BS) did not deserve. While I cannot completely repay (BS) for the pain I have caused her, I will do my best to become the husband she�s been missing. I care a great deal for my family and I would not want to do anything to risk their happiness. I will not make any further contact with you and I do not want you to make any contact with me. Please respect my desire to end our relationship.
Sincerely,
(WS)
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