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Some days I feel like all is well and we my H and I are making progress towards rebuilding our marriage after his A. Then other days like today I am so depressed I can hardly stand it. Today is one of those days.
I just feel all alone and so damn sad. My husband seems to have put his A in the past and we are going to counseling and have atually been doing well...why can't I shake this gloom? I am on an AD and I guess this helps.
I just still cant get over what has happened. His affair has just ruined me. I love him so much but am still so hurt.DD was in November..I had no idea he came to me.
I am usually stronger than this...but today I just want to vanish.Is it normal to go back and fourth with this depression?
DDI - November 26, 2006
DDII - May 28, 2007
Married 20 years
3 childre - m/24, m/17, f/12
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Completely normal. You are very early in all this. I think you are doing very well. When I was at your point in all of this, I was still like a zombie.
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My D-Day was Thanksgiving Day so we are pretty close. Think about your Plan A and do something for yourself today. Buy a new CD you can crank up and get a little loose to. You are doing good.
If you are going through he//, you better keep going.
--Sir Winston Churchhill (1874-1965)
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