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#1812678 01/21/07 10:18 PM
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song mean to you if found on you fws's computer

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Lyin' in my bed
Thoughts in my head
Visions of you
But I can't get through the night

So pick up the phone
I know you're home
You're playin' with my heart
And you know that it just ain't right

It's just a game of love, love, love
And even though it's hard baby
I can never give you up

You're the one I'm dreamin' of
I can't live without your love
Tonight
And it's you that I adore
You're the one that I live for
Inside
Of you, I'm dreamin' of you

So I get in the car
But I didn't get far
'Cause the radio played
Every song that I sang with you

Yesterday's gone
And it may be true
But you know that
I'll never get over you

It's just a game of love, love love
And even though it hurts me baby
I can never give you up

'Cause you're the one I'm dreamin' of
I can't live without your love
Tonight
And it's you that I adore
You're the one that I live for
Inside
Of you, I'm dreamin' of you

You, you gave me love
Love gave us hope and strength
To carry on and
You, you gave me faith
When I was fallin' down
You would pick me up, my love

You're the one I'm dreamin' of
I can't live without your love
Tonight
And it's you that I adore
You're the one that I live for
Inside
Baby, baby, baby, baby
You're the one I'm dreamin' of
I can't live without your love
Tonight
And it's you that I adore
You're the one that I live for
Inside
Baby
I'm dreamin' of you

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I think it might mean I'm in trouble again. However it's been 5 years since the EA and we live nowhere near her. Or does it mean someone else? Or does it mean nothing at all?

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Well, it's a Celine Dion song. Does he like her?

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Hmm. I would think the same think I thought when I found my WW was listening to this song (aka affair music)- something is going on. I think in her head she reversed the roles in the song to fit her and OM.

I asked WW why she was listening to a song about an affair. Her response - I just like the music I did not listen to the words. Yeah, riiiight!


Lips of an Angel by Hinder

Honey why you calling me so late
It's kinda hard to talk right now
Honey why you crying is everything okay
I gotta whisper cause I can't be too loud
Well, my girl's in the next room
Sometimes I wish she was you
I guess we never really moved on
It's really good to hear your voice saying my name
It sounds so sweet
Coming from the lips of an angel
Hearing those words it makes me weak
and I,
never wanna say goodbye
But girl you make it hard to be faithful
With the lips of an angel

It's funny that you're calling me tonight
And yes I dreamt of you too
And does he know you're talking to me will it start a fight
No, I don't think she has a clue
Well my girl's in the next room
Sometimes I wish she was you
I guess we never really moved on
It's really good to hear your voice saying my name
It sounds so sweet
Coming from the lips of an angel
Hearing those words it makes me weak
and I,
never wanna say goodbye
But girl you make it hard to be faithful
With the lips of an angel

It's really good to hear your voice saying my name
It sounds so sweet
Coming from the lips of an angel
Hearing those words it makes me weak
let her die,
never wanna say goodbye
But girl you make it hard to be faithful
With the lips of an angel
(let it die,I never wanna say goodbye)
But girl you make it hard to be faithful
With the lips of an angel

Honey why you calling me so late


Divorced on 3/25/2008 but I have primary legal and physical custody of my 2 kids.

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i wanna vomit everytime i hear that song.....


what we do in life......echoes in eternity!
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You know, I love that song and never knew the lyrics. I just like the romantic love song type. Now that I see the words, however, it makes me want to PUKE also.

However, in your respective WW cases, maybe they were like me and never really paid attention to all the words and meaning of the song.

Just a thought


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nikko #1812684 01/22/07 12:23 PM
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i wanna vomit everytime i hear that song.....

Pretty much agree with that statement. My DH shared this song with me after I told him and everytime I hear it I see it as him, but he of course sees it the other way around.

There are a lot of songs lately that I would love to never hear again, and they were good songs a couple months ago, now they just leave that bad taste in your mouth.

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Look at the file's properties...when was that file created on your computer?

If it's from a long time ago, I'd not worry so much. If it was recently created, I'd DEFINITELY worry.

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Yes he does listen to celine but usually only when the kids want to.

This was the one and only song that he had pulled up on the music player on his computer.

I will try to check the properties, however I know he did not have this computer when he was in his former EA. The kids do have access to his computer however I checked this area several weeks ago and was looking at the songs on there. I do not believe the kids had access to this computer in the weeks since however I will check with them to make sure.

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i wanna vomit everytime i hear that song.....



there are so many songs that I used to like that i am vomiting to now, both of those are on the list.

the waywards also ruined my favorite movie "pride and predjudice" I bought it for WS for xmas, I thought it was our movie, now I find out.... OP got it for her too..... now its in the trash. I am bent, I loved that movie <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />


Fightingback BS (me) 36 WS 39 3 kids 3,4,8 together 15yrs EA 9/06, PA 10/06 12/07 plan A 1/13/07 WS moves out 1/27/07 1st attempt plan B 2/20/07 REAL plan B

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