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My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 wonderful years. We have had our ups and downs, but we have managed to get through them all. That is until a few months ago when I was unfaithful to him and destroyed our marriage. We are separated now and he wants nothing to do with me. He has moved on and is dating again, and it is tearing me apart. I want him back, and I have discussed my feelings with him, but he says nothing. He has made it bluntly clear that he doesn't wish to work things out. Please pray for me, that he has second thoughts and decides to give me, and our marriage another chance. In the meantime, I need all the guidance and support I can get.
Tracy Viccaro
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Tracy - tell us about your faith and your husband's faith so we will have a better understanding of what to pray for.
With God, nothing is impossible. But the devastation of an affair is enormous to the Betrayed Spouse, and it sounds like your husband is now engaged in revenge affairs, or headed that way. So it would help to have a better understand of each of your relationships with Christ.
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you may want to take your last name off your post
read Harley's site/books
Pep
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you may want to take your last name off your post Pep is right. Click on Edit Post on the post you made and delete your last name.
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Tracy - Though I do not know your entire situation, I will include you in my prayers. My situation seems similar to yours. I hope you can pray for me too.
God bless.
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Tracy You will be in my prayers. Plan A him even from a distance.
I know most of the posts here are from and to the BS side but those of us who have messed up and repent need support and prayer too.
Show him love, take resposibility, cut off all contact with the other man if you haven't yet. And think about what attracted him to you in the first place. Use your knowledge of your past dating and marriage to win him back.
You know him better then anyone else.
You have my prayers.
DR
I have destroyed my world through my own ignorance. Now I hope that I am given the chance to try to rebuild it.
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