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#1814527 01/25/07 08:21 AM
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Do you recall the "article" you had written regarding sex and teens?

I had it stored on my computer for such a long time but my 'puter at home crashed and I can't retrieve it.

Do you know the one I am talking about?

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no I don't remember it.....

but it sounds really good...

was it on the old boards...

We lost a lot of good posts on those old boards.....

I bet it was about the God's gift of human sexuality....
and how I believe that affairs are akin to sexual activity between teens...

how it is full of holes...

sex feels G R E A T !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
we all get that...
in fact that's the easiest part of a sexual relationship...

the Gift of God are the fullfilling actions outside of the touchy feely stuff..

the ability to care for
respect
nuture
and be there for the other in ALL aspects..

financial
emotionally
etc...

and teen logistically can't do those things...so they fill the time with the easy physical stuff...never experiencing the real intimacy of nurturing

this lack of ability due to a teens circumstance..twist Gods gift of sexuality in to something damaging that leaves holes and scars and doubt and confusion....in young lives...

affairs are like that...

the glorification of the sexual aspects...(the easiest part of a relationship,..

leaving empty unfullfilling holes of the other gifts of human sexuality...

self inflating importance of the feel good...

without the reality of total loving...

the mockery of using the feel good

The hypocrisy of using Gods celebrations...

the birth of CHRIST
the celebration of SAINT SAINT I say SAINT VALENTINE...

those are Gods gift of love in personification...

twisted in to sexual feel good moments...

a mockery of Gods love and gifts...

was it like that weaver....

or totally different..... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

you know I can go on and on and on and on.....

ARK

ark^^ #1814529 01/25/07 10:28 AM
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Yes, that is exactly what it was about Ark, I think you posted it after you gave a talk to teens or something if I remember correctly. It was on the old board, a couple of years ago.

I'm going to have to see if I have a printed copy at home and get it scanned on here if you can't find it.


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