Hello,
I think my Bride to be is having some cold feet. Last night as I dropped her off at her house she said, "Im not excited about the wedding, I don't know if I love you enough, i'm more nervous that im doing the wrong thing and not excited.
Well we went in and talked for a couple of hours. I told her that Im nervous to, but on the flip side, i look at the alternative of losing you forever and I just cannot handle that.
We have been together 4 years, faithfully. We are both Christians and have never been sexually intimate with each other. We have kissed and touched but nothing more than that.
She says that shes not sure she enjoys it when I touch her *there* and thinks that she needs to. I told her that since we have never gone that far, theres really no knowing for sure if we'll like each other that way but I know I love you and I want to be with you for the rest of my life.
Unfortunately our wedding is this coming Saturday. We've gone through all the counseling and everything went well, it all started yesterday when her friends gave her a Victorias Secret card to buy something for the wedding night.
We have decided that we're not going to do anything wedding until tuesday night. Tuesday night we are going to talk about it and see if she would like to postpone the wedding or go ahead with it. But I let her know it has to be her decision and nobody elses.
Just curious if anyone has any advice on what I can do, or any advice to help me cope in this hard time.
Thanks
